Dating: Love vs Infatuation

black board with Love is Love written across the board numerous times

Love	Infatuation
An unselfish caring about the interest of the other.	Is selfish, restrictive. One thinks, "What does this do for me?"
Romance often starts slowly, perhaps taking months or years.	Romance starts fast, perhaps taking hours or days.
You are attracted by the other person's total personality and spiritual qualities.	You are deeply impressed or interested in the other's physical appearance.
You want to give and share with the other person.	The emphasis is on taking or getting, especially in satisfying sexual urges.
You view the other realistically, seeing faults but loving them anyway.	Is unrealistic. The other person seems perfect, and doubts are ignored.
Disagreements are resolved through communication.	Arguments are frequent and often unresolved. Many are settled with a kiss.
Focus is on giving and sharing.	Focus is on taking and satisfying personal desires.

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